In some residence halls, students are required to complete a “roommate agreement” form together. This form outlines various scenarios, like setting boundaries for having guests over, and encourages roommates to discuss expectations. Both parties share their preferences and agree on solutions that work for everyone. Once completed, the agreement is signed and a copy is kept by the Resident Assistant. This document serves as a reference if conflicts arise, helping to mediate disagreements and establish clear boundaries from the start.
While confrontation can be uncomfortable, it’s often a necessary step toward building a healthy roommate relationship. Personally, I never had significant issues with my roommates during my Freshman and Sophomore years. When challenges did arise, we communicated openly, found a solution, and moved forward. My advice: don’t shy away from confrontation. If you’re concerned about addressing a problem, it usually means you care enough about your relationship with your roommate to work through it.